🄷🪦 Murder Your Anxiety

3 Steps to Smash It

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A tale of the lion 🦁 and the gazelle!

The gazelle - always on the run to see another day, it’s constantly in ā€œfight-or-flightā€ mode to survive.

The lion - a badass hunter, stalking with ice-cold focus, knowing it’ll take down the slowest gazelle with one calculated strike.

A lot of us neurodivergents can resonate with the gazelle:

  • Anxious

  • Fight-flight

Anxiety is a crippling thing. F*cking up our nervous system.

It can make us:

  • Rush impulsively, not thinking straight

  • Make irrational decisions

So what’s the murder plan for anxiety?

1) Acceptance


For some of us ADHDers and autists, ā€œbalanceā€ doesn’t exist in our neurological vocabulary.

I’m quite an extreme person, and most neurodivergent people I know are on the same boat.

So I decided to accept my fate to be on the lion’s side, and be okay with the fact that I won’t be everyone’s favorite. I’m a red personality type anyway:

  • Determined

  • Competitive as hell

Part of what makes us anxious is when we mask and pretend to be someone we’re not!

But I get that we may have to do a bit of ā€œblending inā€. I’ve got bills to pay and a family to feed, so I have to be somewhat mindful.

But for the most part, I’m accepting who I am.

2) Slow the F*ck Down


This is something most neurodivergents struggle with. We feel that we have to be on the move 24/7, constantly.

Picture a hamster wheel non-stop… That’s how our Anxiety can run our minds crazy!

  • Pause

  • Chill out

It forces us to be in the present, something we struggle with. I find that when I do this, I’m a better version of myself.

A lot of my out-of-the-box thinking and problem-solving is when I’m in this relaxed state of mind. Subconsciously.

There are many ways to do this, I like:

  • Mindfulness: journaling what’s making me anxious

  • Watching a movie: I recently watched The Godfather I and II.

I like to have novelty so I don’t get bored; you may choose to do the same thing if that’s your bag.

3. Supplementation

Check with a doc before starting, especially if you’re on meds.

i) Ashwagandha
What It Is: A calming herb used in traditional medicine.


What It Does for Anxiety: Slashes stress and anxiety by 40% by lowering stress hormones.


Why? Calms without sedating, helping with overstimulation and emotional regulation.

ii) Magnesium
What It Is: A mineral in nuts, greens, or supplements.


What It Does for Anxiety: Eases anxiety by 10–15% by relaxing the brain


Why? Soothes sensory overload and hyperactivity. Many neurodivergent folks are low in magnesium. May improve focus and sleep.

iii) L-Theanine
What It Is: A calming compound in green tea.


What It Does for Anxiety: Cuts anxiety by 20%, promoting calm focus


Why? Enhances focus and reduces overwhelm without drowsiness. Safe, no major side effects. Great for daily use or with caffeine.

Next week

We’ll begin a four-part series on growing up neurodivergent with immigrant parents, navigating school and work. Stay tuned!

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Lastly,

Stay Different,

The AuDHD Exec

Disclaimer: I am not your psychiatrist, coach, doctor. Neurodiverse Diary does not provide medical services or professional counselling and is not a substitute for professional medical care. Everything I publish represents my opinions, experience, not advice.

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